May 28, 2010

: Viewing yourself in the right light!

I just read the following a few minutes ago and thought it was too good to not share with everyone! 
Your view of yourself will greatly influence how others perceive you. If you are a confident, cheerful, positive person, your co-workers, friends, and family will be attracted to your personality. If you are unhappy, negative, and always complaining about your situation, others will be repelled.

Even when at times you don’t feel very happy, by forcing yourself to behave in a positive fashion, you will find that you soon feel genuinely upbeat, because your subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between an artificial emotion and the real thing. When you behave positively, you will positively influence everyone around you-including yourself.
For most of my life I was a very negative and unhappy person. So many bad things were happening to me that I became comfortable with disappointments and pain and ultimately thought I deserved it all. It wasn't until this last year, or so, that I "saw the light" and realized I am a good person who has so many great things in my life. I changed how I looked at the world and the situations I found myself in, and "change your thoughts, change your life" became my motto.

I hope you can all realize that despite any negative happenings, you can get through them if you just believe in yourself and in positive thinking!



  1. Wonderful post! Yes, I have noticed in myself and others, that when we are unhappy we become ultracritical or the world and the people around us. It truly helps to be mindful of what you say, and to try to always say positive things!

  2. Indeed! I'm glad you liked this post :-)

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